💗 When love keeps slipping through your fingers… there’s another way.

💗 When love keeps slipping through your fingers… there’s another way.

When I first began the Method of Stillness, I was shattered. Fresh out of divorce, no career, no education to fall back on, and two children depending on me. I felt like I had nothing to give. Just emptiness and heartbreak.

And yet… in that place of desperation, I found Stillness. Not silence. Not forced positivity. A frequency that met me in my pain and began to reshape everything.

In my first year of this practice, I wrote Still the Pain.
In my second, I published four books, built a website, created courses, and set up an entire business system. Looking back, it feels impossible — but that’s what happens when you hold a New Frequency.

Here’s something I’ve learned along the way: when you shift your frequency, you don’t just heal heartbreak… you start to change the kind of love you attract.

For years, I found myself pulled into the same cycle: men who couldn’t commit, love that felt half-alive, relationships that kept ending the same way. It wasn’t because I was broken. It was because my relationship blueprint was still tuned to old patterns.

Once that shifted, everything changed. The men who showed up in my life were different. They were steady, consistent, available. They weren’t “situationships” or endless disappointments — they were real.

✨ That’s the heart of The Soulmate Frequency. It’s not about becoming more “high value,” learning clever banter, or pretending to like football. It’s about shifting your inner frequency so love that is true, lasting, and devoted can finally recognize you.

Inside you’ll learn:
âś… How to identify your old Relationship Blueprint (and rewrite it)
✅ The Heart Test — a way to know in minutes, not months, if someone’s energy truly aligns with yours
✅ The New Guide to Dating — a meditation-gifted framework that cuts through chaos and shows you how to spot a partner who is emotionally, mentally, and spiritually ready
✅ Why attraction isn’t about luck or timing, but the energy you carry — and how to finally change it

📚 The Soulmate Frequency is the second book in my trilogy, following Still the Pain (healing heartbreak) and leading into Communicating with Men (creating lasting connection without losing yourself).

Written by Shelle Crow — Author, Meditation Guide, and Creator of the Method of Stillness.

👉 Still the Pain https://welcome.luminouslivingstore.com/paperback-welcome/

👉 The Soulmate Frequency https://welcome.luminouslivingstore.com/paperback-welcome-soulmate/

👉 Communicating with Men https://www.shellecrow.com/communicating-with-men

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